Top 10 Thoughtful 5 Year Anniversary Gift Ideas for Her

Five years of marriage is a beautiful milestone. By now, your relationship has grown deeper, more resilient, and more full of shared stories than ever before. When it comes to celebrating this moment, the gift you choose matters — it should reflect your journey and show her just how much she means to you.

The traditional 5th anniversary gift is wood, symbolizing strength and rooted love. But that doesn’t mean your gift has to be rustic or expected. This list features 10 thoughtful ideas — including elegant wood and gemstone jewelry — that blend tradition with beauty, creativity, and intention.

1. 5 White Sapphire Round Necklace – Gold Fill

This elegant necklace features five brilliant white sapphires in a warm wood setting, each one symbolizing a year of your marriage. Set in gold fill, it offers a stunning balance of sparkle, symbolism, and craftsmanship.

Why she’ll love it: It’s wearable, romantic, and a meaningful way to mark each year of your journey.

2. A Handwritten Anniversary Letter

In a world of texts and emails, nothing is more intimate than a handwritten letter. Pour your heart into a note reflecting on the last five years — what you’ve learned, what you love most about her, and what you dream of next.

Pro tip: Tuck it into the jewelry box for a surprise inside the surprise.

3. Solo Blue Sapphire Round Necklace – Yellow Gold

This piece shines with a single deep blue sapphire — the modern gemstone associated with the 5th anniversary. The wood inlay adds warmth, and the yellow gold setting creates a luxurious, yet understated look.

Perfect for: The partner who appreciates refined beauty with thoughtful meaning.

4. A Romantic Weekend Getaway

You don’t have to go far to get away. Book a cozy Airbnb cabin, a boutique hotel in your city, or a spa retreat and spend a weekend reconnecting. Bonus points for handwritten itineraries and surprise dinner reservations.

Why it works: Sometimes, presence is the best present.

 

5. Silver Bar Inlay Pendant

This minimalist bar pendant combines cool-toned silver with a rich wood inlay, creating a sleek, wearable nod to the traditional 5th anniversary theme. It’s versatile enough for everyday wear, but striking enough for special occasions.

 

6. A Custom Photo Album or Memory Book

Print your favourite photos from the past five years and organize them in a custom photo book. Include notes, inside jokes, and captions. This can be as elegant or playful as you like.

Pro tip: Include a blank section titled “Our Next Chapter.”

Gift idea: Pair it with a line from your vows engraved on the back (if available).

 

7. Rose Gold Mini Heart Necklace

This dainty necklace features a handcrafted wood heart inlaid in soft rose gold. It’s sweet, subtle, and incredibly romantic — a beautiful reminder of your love she can wear every day.

Style note: Rose gold flatters every skin tone and adds a soft glow to any outfit.

 

8. A Personalized At-Home Spa Experience

Assemble a curated spa kit with bath salts, essential oils, and a candle in her favorite scent. Add a robe and a printed “Spa Night” invitation. For extra magic, schedule it after dinner with soft music and no phones.

Why she’ll appreciate it: Thoughtful self-care + quality time = heartfelt celebration.

 

9. Custom Wood-Inspired Artwork

Commission a personalized piece of art that reflects your journey — perhaps a tree with five rings, an illustrated timeline of key moments, or a quote that’s meaningful to both of you. Many artists on Etsy offer affordable commissions.

Bonus: Frame it in a wooden frame to nod to the anniversary theme.

 

10. Gold Ring Pendant Necklace

Circular and symbolic, this pendant represents eternity and the unbreakable bond you share. The gold setting wraps around warm wood tones, blending elegance and tradition in one timeless piece.

Perfect pairing: Present it during a dinner or toast and say, “Here’s to our circle of love.”

5th Anniversary FAQs

What is a good 5 year anniversary gift for my wife?

A thoughtful 5th anniversary gift combines meaning and personalization — think wood jewelry, a heartfelt letter, or a weekend away together.

Is jewelry an appropriate 5 year anniversary gift?

Yes! Jewelry — especially wood and gemstone pieces — aligns beautifully with the traditional theme while offering a personal and lasting touch.

What gemstone is for the 5th anniversary?

Sapphire is often associated with the 5th anniversary. Liel and Lentz offers beautiful sapphire-accented pieces set in wood and gold for the perfect blend of tradition and sparkle.

Where can I buy meaningful 5 year anniversary gifts for her?

Explore handcrafted wood jewelry made for milestone moments here, including sapphires, bar pendants, and symbolic heart necklaces.

Why is wood used for the 5th anniversary?

Wood symbolizes strength, growth, and lasting roots — a perfect metaphor for five years of marriage. It’s a reminder that your relationship is resilient and enduring.

Celebrate 5 Years with Meaning

Five years is something to be proud of — and the right gift can speak volumes. Whether it’s a delicate sapphire necklace, a custom photo album, or a weekend away, what matters most is the intention behind it.

Liel and Lentz makes it easy to find jewelry that tells your story — rooted in tradition, crafted with care, and made to be worn for years to come.

Explore the full 5th Anniversary Collection today.